5 Disgusting Habits That Annoy Your Partner
Most of us all have annoying habits, which, curiously, we don’t find annoying to us. When the annoying habits comes from someone you live with or are around a lot, these habits can get on your nerves.
Here’s what happens most of the time. When you start the vicious cycle of resentment… where you’re fed up with your partner and just need a break, their irritating habits will start to get to you.
That annoying habit may appear to be the source, but it’s not the habit that is the problem; it’s how you deal with it. Here are some typical categories of annoying habits:
Outer Body Movements
This includes non-clandestine nose picking, burping, passing gas, picking teeth and anything that you would normally do in your own private space away from others.
Yes, we all do these things, but we should at least give some space before releasing unwanted smells that other people may not want to smell.
If picking their nose, is the problem, just ask them to go to bathroom and use a tissue when they have to pick their nose. This way you know they can wash their hands. If picking their teeth is a problem, again ask them to go pick their teeth in the bathroom so stuff from their teeth doesn’t go flying everywhere.
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Selective Listening
So you’re trying to talk to your partner, but they are more focused on the game or something else. You are trying to talk to them about something super important, but instead they seem to tune you out completely. Agree upon a code word (like “Apple”) for when you really would like their full attention. This will let your partner know that paying attention now is important to you.
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Being Completely Messy
Leaving out dishes, clothes, and things that leave a mess, are all things that will leave your partner completely annoyed. No one wants to be around a slob who doesn’t see the importance of a clean living environment. If you do run into this problem with your partner, just explain to them that keeping a clean environment is really important to how you go about your day.
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Bad Manners
Leaving the toilet seat up, using the controller to scratch their back, or blowing their nose at the dinner table are good examples of what not to do. Bad manners are easily overlooked, because most of us usually just get use to doing them so offend that they start to think that it is completely normal… but it’s not. These are a things that you should step away and do in private.
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Someone Who Is A Control Freak
The control freak… Well, we all know that a control freak is someone who is sure to annoy you. A control freaks only energy in life is to try and control every thing about you that makes you happy. A control freak doesn’t want you to be happy, they just want to make sure that the environment that they live in only makes them happy. Control freaks like to make all the decisions and they want to have all the say so.
Well, we hope that if you have any of these habits, you gained a better understanding on how your partner may be feeling. Please feel free to share your experience in the comments below! Stay safe and God bless.
